Be who you are, Zuva and no one and nothing else. They will either love you and want to be around you for who you truly are or deflect and continue to pressure you. Your peace of mind, happiness, and well-being are of the utmost importance.
I am the eldest of seven. I know about pressure. For nineteen years, I was the only girl. My siblings love, appreciate and admire me for who I am, not for who my parents think I am. But I am thirty-nine years old and that came with time and loads of it. Good luck.