GO FOR IT!
I have people who still do not know that I cut my hair. And, when I visit home sometimes, and I see those I attended high school with who are not in the know, they are floored. The first thing they usually utter is, “you cut all that long, pretty hair?”
I be on some India Arie mess, “I am not my hair,” people.
My ex for whom the big chop centered around… I cut it after we just could not make it work after so many years of trying. He saw me one year after and it was like, he couldn’t even look at me. I knew at that moment, we would never EVER make it.