What did I say the other day, “You just have this aura, Aura.”
As someone who does not mind scratching surfaces to get to the core of others, you have a solid — good core. When people learn that of you, your wings are not nearly as protective. Sure, they do their job just fine, but they also welcome those who need or should be welcomed as you see fit.
Overall, your Aura is fine the way she is.